[BUG]vscale ops of pg cluster is stuck in the running state, with INVALID restart Annotation

[tianyue86]

Describe the bug

Kubernetes: v1.31.1-aliyun.1
KubeBlocks: 1.0.0-beta.32
kbcli: 1.0.0-beta.15

To Reproduce
Steps to reproduce the behavior:

1. Create pg cluster with the following yaml

apiVersion: apps.kubeblocks.io/v1
kind: Cluster
metadata:
  name: postgres-ocgaqt
  namespace: default
spec:
  clusterDef: postgresql
  topology: replication
  terminationPolicy: Delete
  componentSpecs:
    - name: postgresql
      serviceVersion: 15.7.0
      labels:
        apps.kubeblocks.postgres.patroni/scope: postgres-ocgaqt-postgresql
      replicas: 2
      disableExporter: true
      resources:
        limits:
          cpu: 100m
          memory: 0.5Gi
        requests:
          cpu: 100m
          memory: 0.5Gi
      volumeClaimTemplates:
        - name: data
          spec:
            accessModes:
              - ReadWriteOnce
            resources:
              requests:
                storage: 20Gi

2. vscale the cluster

kbcli cluster vscale postgres-ocgaqt --auto-approve --force=true                 --components postgresql                 --cpu 200m                 --memory 0.6Gi --namespace default
OpsRequest postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh created successfully, you can view the progress:
	kbcli cluster describe-ops postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh -n default

3. The process is stuck at this ops

kbcli cluster list-ops postgres-ocgaqt --status all  --namespace default
NAME                                    NAMESPACE   TYPE              CLUSTER           COMPONENT    STATUS    PROGRESS   CREATED-TIME                 
postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh   default     VerticalScaling   postgres-ocgaqt   postgresql   Running   0/2        Mar 06,2025 16:04 UTC+0800

k describe opsrequest postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh
Name:         postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh
Namespace:    default
Labels:       app.kubernetes.io/instance=postgres-ocgaqt
              app.kubernetes.io/managed-by=kubeblocks
              operations.kubeblocks.io/ops-type=VerticalScaling
Annotations:  <none>
API Version:  operations.kubeblocks.io/v1alpha1
Kind:         OpsRequest
Metadata:
  Creation Timestamp:  2025-03-06T08:04:51Z
  Finalizers:
    opsrequest.kubeblocks.io/finalizer
  Generate Name:  postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-
  Generation:     2
  Owner References:
    API Version:     apps.kubeblocks.io/v1
    Kind:            Cluster
    Name:            postgres-ocgaqt
    UID:             036c86b9-2d3c-4bbe-8f6c-978b384d563d
  Resource Version:  67651601
  UID:               1e4df749-de9f-400d-9271-46af8fa2d592
Spec:
  Cluster Name:                    postgres-ocgaqt
  Enqueue On Force:                false
  Force:                           true
  Pre Condition Deadline Seconds:  0
  Type:                            VerticalScaling
  Vertical Scaling:
    Component Name:  postgresql
    Limits:
      Cpu:     200m
      Memory:  644245094400m
    Requests:
      Cpu:     200m
      Memory:  644245094400m
Status:
  Cluster Generation:  3
  Components:
    Postgresql:
      Phase:  Updating
      Progress Details:
        Message:     Start to vertical scale: Pod/postgres-ocgaqt-postgresql-1 in Component: postgresql
        Object Key:  Pod/postgres-ocgaqt-postgresql-1
        Start Time:  2025-03-06T08:04:51Z
        Status:      Processing
        Object Key:  Pod/postgres-ocgaqt-postgresql-0
        Status:      Pending
  Conditions:
    Last Transition Time:  2025-03-06T08:04:51Z
    Message:               wait for the controller to process the OpsRequest: postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh in Cluster: postgres-ocgaqt
    Reason:                WaitForProgressing
    Status:                True
    Type:                  WaitForProgressing
    Last Transition Time:  2025-03-06T08:04:51Z
    Message:               OpsRequest: postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh is validated
    Reason:                ValidateOpsRequestPassed
    Status:                True
    Type:                  Validated
    Last Transition Time:  2025-03-06T08:04:51Z
    Message:               Start to vertical scale resources in Cluster: postgres-ocgaqt
    Reason:                VerticalScalingStarted
    Status:                True
    Type:                  VerticalScaling
  Last Configuration:
    Components:
      Postgresql:
        Limits:
          Cpu:     100m
          Memory:  512Mi
        Requests:
          Cpu:      100m
          Memory:   512Mi
  Phase:            Running
  Progress:         0/2
  Start Timestamp:  2025-03-06T08:04:51Z
Events:
  Type    Reason                    Age                From                    Message
  ----    ------                    ----               ----                    -------
  Normal  WaitForProgressing        17m (x2 over 17m)  ops-request-controller  wait for the controller to process the OpsRequest: postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh in Cluster: postgres-ocgaqt
  Normal  ValidateOpsRequestPassed  17m (x2 over 17m)  ops-request-controller  OpsRequest: postgres-ocgaqt-verticalscaling-8wmzh is validated
  Normal  VerticalScalingStarted    17m (x2 over 17m)  ops-request-controller  Start to vertical scale resources in Cluster: postgres-ocgaqt
  Normal  Processing                17m                ops-request-controller  Start to vertical scale: Pod/postgres-ocgaqt-postgresql-1 in Component: postgresql

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