[chery-pick](branch-2.1) Pick "[Fix](group commit) Fix group commit block queue mem estimate fault"

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Pick [Fix](group commit) Fix group commit block queue mem estimate faule #35314

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Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem: When group commit=async_mode and NULL data is imported into a variant type column, it causes incorrect memory statistics for group commit backpressure, leading to a stuck issue. Cause: In group commit mode, blocks are first added to a queue in batches using add block, and then blocks are retrieved from the queue using get block. To track memory usage during backpressure, we add the block size to the memory statistics during add block and subtract the block size from the memory statistics during get block. However, for variant types, during the add block write to WAL, serialization occurs, which can merge types (e.g., merging int and bigint into bigint), thereby changing the block size. This results in a discrepancy between the block size during get block and add block, causing memory statistics to overflow.
Solution: Record the block size at the time of add block and use this recorded size during get block instead of the actual block size. This ensures consistency in the memory addition and subtraction.

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Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

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