[Parallel Execution] Counter for dependency waits

[gelash]

Add a counter for monitoring, e.g. with more threads should observe more aborts and dependency waits, and actually dependency waits are saving aborts, so good complementary metric to the number of speculative aborts.

[github-actions]

✅ Forge suite land_blocking success on 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a

performance benchmark with full nodes : 6127 TPS, 6483 ms latency, 13500 ms p99 latency,(!) expired 280 out of 2616700 txns
Test Ok

• Grafana dashboard
• Humio Logs
• Test runner output
• Test run is land-blocking

[github-actions]

✅ Forge suite compat success on testnet_2d8b1b57553d869190f61df1aaf7f31a8fc19a7b ==> 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a

Compatibility test results for testnet_2d8b1b57553d869190f61df1aaf7f31a8fc19a7b ==> 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a (PR)
1. Check liveness of validators at old version: testnet_2d8b1b57553d869190f61df1aaf7f31a8fc19a7b
compatibility::simple-validator-upgrade::liveness-check : 7140 TPS, 5427 ms latency, 8300 ms p99 latency,no expired txns
2. Upgrading first Validator to new version: 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a
compatibility::simple-validator-upgrade::single-validator-upgrade : 4720 TPS, 8715 ms latency, 11500 ms p99 latency,no expired txns
3. Upgrading rest of first batch to new version: 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a
compatibility::simple-validator-upgrade::half-validator-upgrade : 4722 TPS, 8823 ms latency, 12000 ms p99 latency,no expired txns
4. upgrading second batch to new version: 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a
compatibility::simple-validator-upgrade::rest-validator-upgrade : 6609 TPS, 5920 ms latency, 10900 ms p99 latency,no expired txns
5. check swarm health
Compatibility test for testnet_2d8b1b57553d869190f61df1aaf7f31a8fc19a7b ==> 9a43a61221804576c13fb5eb9a651e3ec21d080a passed
Test Ok

• Grafana dashboard
• Humio Logs
• Test runner output
• Test run is land-blocking

[zekun000]

this probably better be a timer than counter?