[UIK-3318][select] fixed defaultHighlightedIndex prop

[ilyabrower]

Motivation and Context

I added logic about disabling highlightedIndex after opening by default by adding defaultHighlightedIndex=null

How has this been tested?

Manually + I added browser test

Screenshots (if appropriate):

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue).
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality).
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected).
• Nice improve.

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly or it's not required.
• Unit tests are not broken.
• I have added changelog note to corresponding CHANGELOG.md file with planned publish date.
• I have added new unit tests on added of fixed functionality.

[sheila-semrush]

I think I don't have any additional comments, apart from what Valeria wrote in the task. Noticed some screen reader issues, created a separate task for that.